How many of us greeted one of the more senior members of our family as they arrived for the Thanksgiving feast and wondered how in the world that person was still able to drive safely? How many threw in an extra “watch for deer” to that person on the way out the door, just in case?

It may seem unfair to have such worries simply because of their age, but according to the U.S. Department of Transportation’s National Highway Safety Administration, fatal traffic accidents involving drivers over the age of 65 increased by 4.7% between 2021 and 2022, to 7,870 nationwide. That number was the highest since NHTSA started keeping track in 1975.

That makes the upcoming National Older Driver Safety Awareness Week a good excuse to talk with friends and family, even if it takes a little courage.

Ohio ranked 18th in the report, with approximately 12.9 deaths due to motor vehicle traffic crashes on a public roadway per 100,000 adults age 65 and older. In both states, the numbers are trending upward.

In West Virginia, nearly 30% (77) of the 264 roadway fatalities in 2022 were “road users” 65 and older. America’s Health Rankings looked at the number of motor vehicle deaths for those 65+ using 2021 data. It found the Mountain State ranked 47th worst for fatalities in that age group, with approximately 20 deaths due to motor vehicle traffic crashes on a public roadway per 100,000 adults age 65 and older.

It’s a fact of life: As we age, physical, visual and cognitive functions can deteriorate. Meanwhile, our cars are getting more complex.

“Today’s vehicles are equipped with many safety features,” said Jack McNeely, director of West Virginia’s Governor’s Highway Safety Program. “Families and caregivers should take time to review vehicle manuals with older drivers to ensure they understand how these features work, if needed.”

Don’t stop there. Encourage them to get vision and hearing checked. Ask their doctor to review medication for potential interactions or hindrances to driving. Ask them to consider planning trips during the day. And be willing to say yes if they take your concerns to heart and ask for a ride; or help them find a way to get where they need to go.

“This can be a difficult time for all involved in these conversations,” the GHSP reminds us. “Understanding and empathizing can go a long way in easing the transition.”

The difficulty is more than worth it if our conversations save a life.